hairy, what was her attitude over the weekend? I must admit I had several... um... negative thoughts about your happy event. One of them was: is she going to say, "Well, you got laid, so stop saying I'm not interested in sex. Now back off." Or does she want to use this as a reason to stop counseling, as in, "He dragged me here because we weren't having sex. We had sex. So now we can stop." OR do you really think there was a tiny but fundamental change in her?