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HD:

I am kind of curious, during your MCing, has the MC ever given you any ideas of what is possible? Have they ever told you what will and will not happen, what is possible, and what is a pipe dream? Or do they say the sky is the limit.

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CeMar, I'll get to your questions in a bit, but first I wanted to mention....

I came home from work and W was here, watching DD3 because her school is out for Spring Break. DD3 was camped out in front of the tv, and was reading some new books from the library. Hardly looked up when I walked in. My cellphone rang...it was W, asking me to come upstairs. I did. She was laying on the bed, fully clothed. I sat down, figuring more talk was ahead. She said, "wanna fool around?"



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Outstanding!

I am very happy for both of you, regardless of how you define "messing around" tomorrow :-)

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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What wonderful news HD...I am so happy for you!!!!

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Wow that's a great way to end the day!

Although I have to chuckle at the idea of her calling you from inside the house on your cell...what did we do before we had cell phones.

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Dude, that is AWESOME! So didja take her up on her offer?
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Yes, we had a nice little session, only interrupted once by DD3.
She told me that she didn't want me to be "timid," which threw me a bit at first, (was she asking me to be rough, or just self-assured?), but I must have taken it the right way, because it turned out very nice.

You know, it's amazing how this has changed my attitude. Now, I know this doesn't mean anything beyond the mere facts that it occurred, and I'm totally aware of that, but I was also aware of my body and mind changes:
- she instantly became more attractive to me.
- I instantly became happier and more energetic.
- I instantly became more interested in doing and finishing chores around the house.
- And yes, I instantly began to wonder when the "next time" will occur.

I asked her later what made her decide to initiate, and she said that it was part opportunity (home all day with DD3, DD3 occupied when I got home) and part that she was just feeling horny. 'Nuff said.

I'm home with DD3 today, and with my other 3 kids, so I won't get much time to post. I just wanted to update the teeming millions, who have been waiting for months for a report such as this.

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Gawd, HD, you DOG!!! I've been waiting for THREE YEARS for that call, ever since our 4th child (now S8, 2nd grade) went off to kindergarten and left W home alone during the day. Now, DD18 has only two hours of school each morning, and comes back home, so the opportunity is gone.

way to go!!!!

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That's terrific, HD!

In honor of the occasion, I will not post my reply to your rebuttal. May things continue along the path you wish!

Hats off to MsHD too!

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I'm JEALOUS!

(Almost 100 days for me )

I could use a bit of "I instantly became happier and more energetic."

You raised my goal a few notches.......

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