I didn't mean that HD should actually actively go out and be a bad guy, I meant that he should let himself be a bad guy psychologically by admitting to himself and maybe even his wife that sometimes he is just a lazy guy who just wants to get laid and accept all the negative connotations that go along with that. I mean if he were to say to his wife "You are right. I am a really sucky husband and a depraved sex fiend. Why do you stay married to me?" she might have to contemplate her stand on the issue from a different perspective.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver