HD posted
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She said that she needed to feel loved by me, that she doesn't, yet she refused to give me any specific guidance on how to do that. Meanwhile, she told me to stop pressuring her, stop demanding things of her, and stop "performing."
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Although I am not as sex starved as HD, I think my situation is very similar to HD's. I try things. Not much in the way of feed back so you feel you are the only one working on the R.
I know how it feels to not get feedback. You don't know if an action is a waste of time, PO'ing your W, or building the R. Sometimes I think the SO does not really know what they want.
HD, I am glad to see you are gently confronting the issues and sticking up for yourself.
