I think everyone has made good points to you today.
Your tendency will be to wimp out. No offense intended.
No fear, HD. Don't let fear rob you of a well earned breakthrough with your wife.
Be honest with the marriage counsellor.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.