Thanks D, know what you mean about posting. I haven't doing that as much either.
Last night H asked if it would be okay if he went for a drive. I said yes and that is all(before probably almost 2 months ago-- I hesitated, said yes then put stipulations). He said, are you sure. I said, yes, go. He called after being gone a little while. As we are talking, I see a shadow passs by the bedroom window. I said an expletive (??spelling) then said, I hope that is you. He laughed and said yes. (Something old H would do). When he came home, he thanked me. I said no problem. He told me where he went. I didn't ask. I think he was trying to reassure me that he stayed close to home.
He picked up my cell phone that was on the computer desk in our room and said, you want me to charge this for you. I said yes. Then, he started playing with my phone. It beeped in a minute that I had a text. He acted all innocent. He sent a silly text.
I think he is appreciating the space I am giving him and the fact that I am not all emotional or reacting to things now. And, I am not asking or questioning anything!!!
