Yep, I understand what you are saying. It makes me mad to hear that. They are telling you it's over and they are leaving, then in the next instant they are saying something about the future. My H said yesterday, that this winter, he would drain the oil and gas out of the lawnmower before storing it. I was like "YOU". But i didn't say anything, just acted like i didn't hear what he said. But then I remember, "Believe NOTHING of what you hear and HALF of what you see"