Great progress from H!!! I guess what Michelle says in DB/DR is right...If the person that always did something (ie: take care of the kids) stops doing those things, it forces the other S to pick up the slack. I've tried that with H and the house cleaning, and it never worked. H could care less if our house is messy...LOL
Its ok to spend time apart, and do your own thing, and him do his...But when you do meet up and settle in for the night it should be a nice thing...Hey H, so how was your day?