Sherry, forgive me for the quick Hi-Jack but it wasn't intentional...
NY, I really do appreciate your insight and it makes me take another look at things sometimes. The thing is (and maybe this is something I have to get over) if someone comes up to me on the street and gives me a good stiff kick to the groin and looks at me on the ground laughing, I don't think I forgive that person for the wrong he committed. If that makes me less of a person, whether in God's eyes or in other peoples eyes, I can't help that.
At the risk of being flippant (which is not my intention), I understand that Jesus was perfect but I'm not. I never will be. So for me to sit and look in the mirror , or even look into my WAW's eyes and say that I forgive her for what she has done...it's not going to happen, not now at least.
Thanks for the words though NY, I'm going to climb back onto my own thread where I belong. Sherry, thanks for the rental!