I'm glad your PMA is up, you need that more than anything. I do want to offer up some advice, you can take it or leave it.
Quote: Still does his nightly solo activities.
We all need some alone time, even you. I know you may see this as your H not "really" wanting to be with you but could it be that he just needs time to himself to gather his thoughts and unwind. He has a lot to deal with too...especially guilt I'm sure. Don't take his doing alone stuff personal...just make sure you make time for you to do the same.
Quote: I mentioned him going to church
Look at this from a DBing standpoint: 1) you are trying to change/control something that is not within your control and 2)it runs along the lines of pursuing. I know that this is important to YOU, but again, you need to give him time, he's not ready for that yet. Focus on you, you can only change/control you.
Plus it sounds like he is trying to make his way there and back to you.
