You are so right about the detaching...It does bring them coming around in ways they werent months before. My problem is that as soon as I notice a positive reaction due to my detaching, I drop the rope. I am too eager to see results. I literally have to stop caring so much as to his reactions I think. From what I noticed about people on these boards is that when they finally reached the point of giving up, not caring either way what happened, thats when things started to turn around. Maybe that is something that we both could use a little bit of.. I feel like our sitches are at a similar point. Both our H's are home, yet OW still in pic. The only difference between mine and yours is that my H shows no interest in being with me in a physical way. I have been trying to test the waters somewhat, but I am afraid to jump in and get the shock of that cold water!
I notice also, if my H sends me a text message and I dont respond he will send a message asking if I got his message, but there are TONS of times I send a how is your day going and get nothing. Funny how your H was all crazed that you did not respond to his email. I am going to use you as my role model here, you seem to have the detaching thing down, and I need help with that, so feel free to whack me into place ok?
