I have been reading your posts with interest because it seems our sitch's are similar. You also seem to be going through much of the same emotions as me...vascillating between going crazy with what we want from H and not caring. This is so hard to go through, but it is really helpful to me to see that what I am experiencing and feeling is normal!! Until I found this BB, I truly thought my sitch was unique. Now I realize how typical it is!
Hang in there, I will keep watching your posts as I get a lot of insight and encouragement from them!
BethJ
H 40
Me 40
married 15 years
5 children aged 2-11
Bomb 2-6-05
Now we are piecing, I think