Sun, if you can't back the ultimatum, then keep DBing-- detach and GAL. I see my H starting to come around but I am very detached at the moment, maybe too detached. Get this, H emails me this morning, I respond. He responds back. I dont respond back to this one --it wasn't really necessary. So this afternoon, he IM me. "Where have you been?" I say, here, my email has been up all day. He says "havent heard from you" ????????????? A month ago he barely emailed me at all. Now it is a few times everyday (just goofy stuff) and he IM me too.
Sun, I have pulled way back and H is starting to iniate things. You need to detach and let your H chase you. This is just my opinion.
