I feel like you and I are in the same boat right now. Although my H has not said the words I want to work this out, his actions tell me otherwise, but at the same time OW is still very much in the picture.
I have my good and bad days with it. Somedays I wonder if this continues H will think that this is fine and never stop the behavior, then I read DB and posts from here and say it could change just keep doing what you are doing. It is so confusing!
I hope for your sake and mine that this is the right thing. That by acting as if it is all being worked out, still knowing OW is in pic that things will get better in the end.
Just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you. Sun
