Thanks D and Gboat,

I had asked H in one of our R talks last week (the week of h...) to try and reach out more physically. That I had done most of the initiating in the past 4 months and I really needed him to start doing it too. So, I think he heard me and is trying.

This morning he make another fire outside. We are having beautiful weather here. As I got out of the shower, he came in and asked me to come out with him and sit by the fire. So I did this morning. It was nice.

He seems to be trying here, but I am not getting my hopes up at all. I have no idea what the sitch is with ow, how much contact he has had. I am not asking and haven't in a week.

Going to enjoy this weather.
Sherry