Who knows how long this will go on, the important thing Sherry is to continue doing what you were doing. List your goals, both your individual and R, and what you are going to do to get there. You are on the right track.
Quote: I think he has really thought about what life will be like with ow and realized it might not be what he thought it would.
Which is probably why the statistics for affairs that turn to marriage and those that actually last are what they are. When the "fantasy" turns to reality the honeymoon is over.
Hope you're doing ok, try to avoid more R talks right now. Go to the gym and workout...try a kickboxing class!