Damn Sherry, I thought you disappeared but I found your new thread(s).
Wow!, can I say what an eventful 72 hours for you! Gone then back. Look, you have been a beacon to me on this board and I don't want to see bad things happen to you. This is why I say (at the risk of being a downer) be careful! I like the way you said that you still have low expectations. Ever since you told me about a month ago to have Zero Expectations, I have been a lot better.
He needs to make it clear that he's done with the OW. If this takes a little time, I understand. But you have to take care of yourself no matter what.
Sherry, you're the best! Look in that mirror, know what I mean?...