Thanks Sportster,

You are right about there still being a lot of work ahead. I know that. Fortunately my 180s have not been hard or things I have to had to really think about. Once I started them, they were easy to continue.

He still has feelings for ow. I think this made him look at the whole picture, though and not just his R with her. He realized what he would be taking on and what he would be losing.

Like you said, we have a long way to go. I know that. I am going to go slow and take one day at a time.

I started a new thread --H is back!!!!!!!!

Sherry