this sounds pretty good so far, SherryL! Can't wait to hear what he and your Mom talked about. From what you said , it sounds like he may be getting "buyers remorse" concerning his R with OW. Sometimes all it takes is to let them have what they think they are seeking, and they find out the grass is always greener over the septic tank for a reason At one point my H seemed to be going that way, when OW sitch was full of high drama. But then she must've found a better way to get her hooks in, cause they ain't done yet!
I am so hoping your H has seen the light here, and is working his way back into your lives. If he does, now you still have some work to do. EVERYONE contributes to the M and everyone has done something that produces the end result. Know where you went wrong, and don't do it again.Know where HE went wrong and don't allow it to happen to you again. i am praying for you and all of us tonight.