Sage, as usual, has some great things for you to think about too, tbone!
Falling in the lines of "too far, too fast", are YOU ready for her to NOT be honest "all of the time"? If a situation comes up where you might have to give her the benefit of the doubt, will you be able to?
Quote: IOW, it seems like you've been putting at least a little effort into trying to prove that she's been lying ... kind of like you're responsible for the honesty for both of you in the R?
Yep, gotta agree with this too. The old "what you focus on expands". It sounds like right now, your focus is gonna be on her honesty, and that might take away from placing some of your energy from other places it might be needed.
To make "the move" work, what might YOU, along with her, need to change?
JJ
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