W moving back in, trust issues came with her

[Jamesjohn]

Hey tbone, my friend! Good to see you again! (except for the circumstances, of course!)

Zing, bang, boom! Sounds like things have been all over the place for you lately! What a ride for you, buddy!

It figures that once you got your confidence back and the spring back into your step, she'd come running back to you. I'd hate to see you lose that, and start back at square one again. What do you think you need to do to keep that momentum going for yourself?

Trust. Is it something that should automatically be given, or is it something that should be earned? Especially if it's something that's been broken in the past?

If she won't make more genuine efforts to be trustworthy I don't want her back.

So, what specific genuine efforts would you like to see, and what, at a minimum, would be "acceptable" for you right now? And most importantly, what would she be willing to give?

This is a tough one, my friend. Things seem to be happening so quick, it's hard not to get caught up in the whirlwind of it all. It's exciting to have the chance to get her back, but it sounds like you're pretty worried about things going back to the way they were, which would take you back to the same place as before. Which I can totally understand, my friend.

Why such the rush? Why this Thursday? What would happen if you delayed the big move for say another week or month or so?

This is JMHO, but I think that I might lean towards the "when in doubt, do nothing" rule. As in being cautious about things going too far, too fast. Which it sounds like your head is leaning towards, too, right?