Hi - sounds like your PMA is up today. Good. I may have misread a pp from you a few days ago, but I thought you said something like you didn't have anything to lose, so that's why I said what I did.
Anyway, I'm glad to hear that you do feel good about the friendship growing. That is where it has to start. Have you ever read any of COG's story? He and his W have been separated for 3 years and are such good friends now when only 2 years ago, she was not in any way looking to save the M.
So, I guess I was worried about your PMA and it's looking good now. I am all for staying in limbo for awhile as long as I'm not moving backwards. Sometimes, you've got to coast a little bit before making strides ahead. I certainly didn't mean for you to go dark for a couple days. What I meant was lay low on the invites. I don't think dark is the thing for you either. I think that you're doing good and your W is responding well most of the time.
