Yes I am entitled to MY opinion; the beauty of this country and these boards.
A parrot? Nonsense? Nice touch.
Yes, I am responsible for 100% of my 50% of the R. Was it perfect? Far from it. Was it miserable as some would like to believe? I do not think so. And could I have been or can I be a better partner in the future. Absolutely.
I think we tend to make life more complex than it really needs to be. Decisions are often far easier than we make them.
But the reality is, it is about each of us and our decisions as individuals and how they affect our lives.