JRB, "I know how you feel about not knowing what kind of R you want after a potential D. I feel the same way. Sometimes I feel that I need to explain that to my W, because she seems so comfortable thinking that we will be friends and there for each other after a D. Then I remind myself that I don't know what I really want. That I so often in the past would make strong statements or give an ultimatum that I didn't really mean. Until I figure it out, I'm going to try to continue to say nothing." Ditto for me. I don't think I've ever just idled this long and let W push all the paper work to D. Regardless of what I do it's "control." I think I'm beginning to learn what putting it in God's hands means. It sure takes faith!
