hey Hope Whatever you do - do NOT follow what another DBer did - her sitch and the way things have gone are truly MIRACULOUS. Her thread is entitled 'But even if he doesn't...' in Staying Solution Focussed. Even though it seems to have worked, it's not something to try unless you're willing to risk it all.
Mind you I don't think she intended it to be part of her DBing EVER!
I've followed Sage around the BB and wow are you in good hands or what? Quit being so impatient *slaps your wrists*
Take care and g'bless Ruby*
...and they lived happily ever after. Or did they?
