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As I look at our interactions she really only wants the "family thing". She refuses or is uncomfortable with the her/me thing. Thus the hesitation when I suggested lunch, but the invite to dinner last night and the acceptance of my invite the night before.




So, focus on the family thing!!! Right? Doesn't this get at two goals...you get to spend time with your w AND you get to display your improving r with the kids...

patience...I know it's hard but babysteps, ok?

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.