From the sounds of it I would tend to agree with the counselor that your wife means "let's not be enemies". It's not real "friendly" for her to never contact you. I would think if she wanted to be friends she would accept a few request for contact that were friendly. But how long is long enough for going dark? Do you poke your head out every once in a while to see if she's still angry?
In my sitch, I truly believe that she wants to be my friend. Not the kind you don't talk to for years. And really I do enjoy her company and want to be her friend too. One thing I really enjoyed this morning was my step son stayed over night and last night and this morning he started calling me dad. It was cool. Anyway, nothing much new to post...I just sent her a quick e-mail to tell her something about Peter Jennings (that we talked about last night) and ask how her day was.
TTFN,
me
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
