Wow,

I just saw what a huge post that was. Looks like Koshka.

One small added note: I just finished reading Akron29's thread. He was clear at divorce papers then went very dark and let her go and let her know it. Things went good from there and they are back together...if still piecing. It's got me thinking. Obviously we each need to think what's best for our individual situations. I could increase slightly the number of "friendly" get togethers and if that doesn't work or she pushes the D, then help her realize her fears that she will lose her friend. THoughts?? SUggestions? Abusive comments??? Ridicule??

Have a good one everybody

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt