Hello all,

Nothing to report, just writing. I read through Martha's thread. Excellent stuff on detaching etc. Many days I have that, but not today. Some days are just so hard not to focus on what the end result will be (divorced or together)

Yesterday night and today I've spent time rounding up pictures and putting them in picture boxes, etc. Some fun trips down memory lane to when my kids were babies and little. I'm actually stoked with attempting to make a scrapbook for the boys. As I mentioned before I also got one for my wife. I might give for Easter, but I need to think about that. Pursuit maximus??? I tried not to focus much on her pictures (she has ones from her previous marriage and before). One thing I did note...my wife is hot and has been for years now. She had this photo shoot at some point (I think during college) where she was wearing this skimpy leopard skin like thing and a mask. WOW!! It was hot. I was tempted to keep those pics. Or at the very least scan them. But all this trip down memory lane was painful.

Should I just spend this entire week without any contact with my wife? I really don't have a reason to call except to wish Happy Easter tomorrow. She was going to use this time to think so I probably should just let her. A definite positive is if she calls me.

Anyway, that's all. Just looking for reassurance and a little company. Time alone is definitely not a good thing. Fortunately I have a bunch of work to do, so TTFN.

La_E (HOPE)


In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt