I had to change. I like to provide support and recieve it, but I cannot vent, cannot suggest my approach to my situation, or what's going on with my wife and I if she is just going to read it. After reading my previous stuff she said she couldn't let me keep holding out hope like I am. I'm sure she understands why I did the things I did, but reading the thread was percieved as a great deal of pressure. "My God, my husband is still holding out hope we'll get back together. Doesn't he know I don't love him anymore? he's deluding himself".
So yeah, I'm hoping she doesn't snoop too hard and find me.
Thanks again for finding me. I, of course, was hoping you would. I'm sorry things seem to be in standstill for you, but you obviously for the most part have a really good attitude.
Like the new name? It means hope (as I'm sure you gathered)...which is what I have.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
