I posted originally as if divorced since we looked like we were heading that way and I was letting it happen really easy. Now my wife does want to meet and go over divorce stuff so we can get it going. I asked..."is this what you really want?" and she said the question wasn't fair. Maybe the question was pointless because she wouldn't do it if it wasn't what she wanted. I don't think it's a scare tactic.
So when I meet her in a half hour or so. Do I just cheerfully go through the details and figure I can DB after divorce and might have a better chance of not pressuring her. Or should I make it clear again that this is not what I want. One last ditch pressuring effort to change her mind or convince her of my desire to save this marriage.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
