I figured I needed to move my post to a different area because my sitch changed dramaticlly this weekend. Yes the greiving needs to happen I have already been through it with our R. I am past alot of what he is about to be going through and I hope that he will not shut me out and see that I can be of a great help through this time. I have gone through the wondering why and how this could happen, to being very angery with the world, I am to the point now where I am starting to be happy again. It has taken me about a month and a half and going to a C to get me to this place. Also working on DR has helped a lot too. The poeple here are great and offer a completely different perspective on your sitch, they listen to you vent when things get tough. I think I would have driven all of my friend nuts if I would not have this BB to post to.
