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I hope that everything works out for you. I think that you should just keep up the Gal and let him hurt for awhile. You have been hurt in the past and now its your time to be strong. I have heard that EA are awful and they are emotionally involved and when something happens they hurt. It doesnt seem fair to us but we have to let them grieve. If we keep up with our 180 and keep being happy maybe he will notice what a wonderful person we are. Good luck!