Above is the link to my sitch. If it does not work it posted under Divorce Remedy, need help getting started with all of this.
Any how My H and the OW broke up last night. I really don't know what to do, she broke things off with him. Not sure if she was doing the right thing or if she wants to see if thing will blow up in my face and will be waiting to pick up the pieces if it does. I have been working on GAL and setting goals which I have had a hard time sticking to them. But I have a "fix" I think I have them written down on index cards and stuck everywhere that I need them. So if I get the feeling to lash out I will be able to look at them and realize that it will be counter productive to do so and hopfully stop. H was very upset yesturday when he got home from the OW place. He did not want to talk a whole lot I even had to get up and find out what had happened at her place. Right now I think he resents me for the whole sitch because of her wanting to brake it off so H and I can try and work things out. I am giving his space right now but it is hard because I know he is hurting really bad. I know that the next couple of days or even weeks will be rough but I have always thought what does not kill us will make us stronger. Right now I don't if he is really thinking of our R so I will keep things light and off of a R talk at least until he warms back up to me. Right now he is very cool and distant. For good reasons, at least that is what he thinks, because of the brake up.
