I want you to be aware of something, should your tests all come back fine. When my H went in I figured that he just MUST have low testosterone. When the results came back and that wasn't it...well, to be honest....I was shattered!
In my eyes, that meant it wasn't something chemical in him....it had to be ME! Now, of course I know that's not the case now, but that was my reaction then. My self-esteem went blooooie! I was crushed...I thought "WTF!! What happens now!??"
Soooooo...please, please, please, have yourself a plan of action in case of this possible outcome. My H really drug his feet about the next step...I truly came close to leaving before he would agree to counseling.
Do you feel it would be possible to sit down and discuss the possible avenues for the two of you before getting your results back. I know if my H would have done that w/me it truly would have helped. At least if he would have done that I would have felt that he was trying to do SOMETHING rather than saying..."well the Dr. says I'm fine." Which of course twisted around in my brain to "well the Dr. says I'm fine, so it must be you!"
