Anytime a commercial about viagra or any of its' relatives comes on, my H makes a comment about needing it. I always tell him I am satisfied and he doesn't have to worry. A couple of days ago I asked him why he thought he would ever need an ed medication. He said that there might be a time that he couldn't satisfy me. I replied that based on the past 10 years it hasn't.
Folks, somewhere along the line H got the idea that his nearly constant sex drive isn't enough. He isn't sexually confident enough to trust that it is, even though I tell him just that at least once a week. H doesn't trust that in the unlikely event that he is unable to please me, that I will not be able to deal with it. H has himself under tremendous pressure.
Is this a pervasive attitude about sex? What can I do to help him ease the pressure he puts himself under?
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
