He TOLD you why he did it...because he thought it was what YOU wanted him to do. Is this a result of the pressuring that's been going on? If so, you've already taken really good positive steps to abate that. If not, how did h get the idea that you wanted him to tell your kids?
Quote: H started talking about all the pressure he's feeling, so this is where I suggest we take a break from everything (thank you, Sage). I apologized for putting so much pressure on him. I told him I understand he has so much on his mind and is going through so many emotions, and with me adding to it, it hasn't helped anything. I said I was sorry again, and let's just drop all the R talks for now and stop worrying about the future. I said let's just give it a very much needed rest. H was silent for a few minutes then said ok.
EXCELLENT. Create some really positive, friendly times for the two of you. NO PRESSURE.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
