Quote: I was in the bedroom getting dressed to go out (by myself) then he comes in there too. H asked what I was doing. I said I'm going out. He asked where and with who. I said I'm going with so-and-so (both of which are SINGLE friends - he knows this - and, yes, I lied ) but I didn't know where they were taking me. H said, "Well, I don't think I'm going to Fresno tonight. Want to do something?" I still can't believe I actually did this, but I said, "No. I already made plans to go out with so-and-so. Sorry." H said after a looooong pause, "Well, will you call me to let me know where you're going when you find out?" Then I said (while putting on some Victoria's Secret body spray - he LOVES this stuff), " I don't know, I have to go. I'm running late!" He appeared to have a worried look on his face. Then he said in a mopey tone, "I hope you have fun. You deserve it. Call me if you want.
JV, JV, JV,
Like the MasterCard commercial says, "That is priceless!!" Judging from your last few posts, it seems like he is spiraling. I couldn't tell you which way I think he's going to fall. I have no idea. However, you stick to your guns. I think you continue to focus on you and what's right for you. Of course this is advice coming from a guy who blew up (in a big R talk) at the W on the phone 4 days ago and hasn't spoken to her since, but I digress.
