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...and qualities. Use examples from real life (wife, ex-wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, teacher, etc.) or from movies, literature.

Notice I'm not asking what "turns you on," although some of these qualities/behaviors might very well do so. What makes you say, "That's a real woman."

(Like NOP said, no bashing, please.)

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Strength. Devotion. Being a great mother to our children. SUPPORTIVE & ENCOURAGING.

Those would be my biggies.

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Some things I like:

A woman who is not afraid to make decisions and not force the man to make all of them.

H - "Where do you want to go for dinner?"
W - "I dunno, where ever"

A woman who can put emotion aside and think logically when it counts.

A woman who is confident about her sexuality with her man.

A sense of humor

A strong sense of Will....(Teary eyed soap box time)...my mom used to say in tough times "this too will pass", she lived that and I draw on that a lot. She also used to say "if you 2 don't settle down and go to sleep, I'm comin in there with my slipper off!" Me and brother always got a big laugh out of that

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tutto passa! I hear that all the time.

Honesty!!!!!

Ability to communicate needs!!!!

"A woman who is confident about her sexuality with her man." (I had that one, but blew it w/ my LD)

Compassionate and forgiving.

to be continued...




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JandJ:

Hey that's me!

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She can bring home the bacon,
Fry it up in a pan,
She'll never forget to make me feel like a man.

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1. When you wink at her and she winks back.
2. When you ask what is wrong and she tells you so you can understand, mostly facts that can be measured.
3. Some one that can laugh at a joke and tell one too.
4. Someone that will tell you they need a hug/kiss or more without thinking you should know you should have done it yesterday so to day when you do hug/kiss or do more they turn you down.
5. Someone that can appreciate the good things in their life, not someone that has to keep up with the neighbors.

More later. Guys, we need to work on this a little more.

OG Lou


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