Bananas, I wouldn't worry about it at ALL. He may just be tired, he may be mentally processing all the events of the last month or so, who knows. You know.......HD people DO get tired, lol.
I actually remember a time when we first began ML again and I temporarily became LD. I was puzzled about why I didn't want it. I have described it on here as a feeling of being "battle weary". I had fought so long to get him to pay attention to me and make our R a priority and when the battle was over, I was just SPENT. We had a few months of ML all the time and then I just...lost my desire for a while. It didn't last long and I was NOT doing it on purpose. He even questioned about whether I was sincere in saying all those years that I missed sex, etc. I just needed some time to reallllllly let my guard down. To really believe that this was going to be a PERMANENT part of our lives. The thought that he might yank it back suddenly and crush me all over again was too much to bear. However, I don't think this was even a conscious thought of mine. None of it was conscious, it just sorta happened. When I backed off a little, he kept up the pace and this reassured me that he was for real. My desire gradually came back and we shifted from a "battle" dynamic to an intimacy dynamic. It was a welcome change, lemme tell ya.
So I would just continue on with your own changes and let him sift through his own thoughts as needed.
It could simply be that he was tired. He may jump your bones tonight and the whole discussion is pointless. Just keep on keeping on with your wonderful new self and he will adjust in no time.
