Thanks Blue I will look into it. I am excited to report that H and I had a great weekend. In fact he said the long awaited words "I love you"!!!!!! I about died. I was taking D1 to the Dr. on Sunday and he walked us out to the car and gave me a hug and said it and then again once this morning. Things are really looking up. I hope that this post can really help to let others out there know that there is hope. I feel that without DB'ing I would not be where we are at today. I feel that the biggest turning points for me was the realization that I needed to give him his own space, find my ownself (& be happy with me), and let him come to me. We still have a lot of work to do but at least we both know that there is still love in the R!
