Thanks IHJ!! You are soooo right. That is exactly what I am doing and he is coming to me instead. It is amazing the amount of progress that we have made. In fact last night he said he was excited at how well we were getting along. He also said that he was being cautious about it. He is still worried things are going to go back the way they were (which I don't blame him). On Thursday night he even slipped and told me that he still really does love me. I just about had a heart attack! I knew it but was shocked it came out of his mouth. I was thrilled to say the least. Besides that night I have not said any ILU's. I don't want to add extra pressure. We are moving into our new place today and are both very excited. (In case you haven't read my other thread-when we moved a few months ago we were waiting for a rental to come up and have been living in my in-laws basement.) As you can imagine this can only help our situation. I can't believe the difference in H. He has also been talking about the future together which includes me and possibly more kids, cuddles with me, hangs around me, is more considerate. I just don't want to get too excited. This has been such a roller coaster that I am scared to let my guard down.
You are so right. Patience.Patience.Patience. Got it! Thanks!
