Hi Bananas,

Your H is in a state of confusion...my best advice is to be self-confident, strong and yes, sexy! Make a plan and stay with it...be consistent. If you do 180's on your 180's and you'll end up running in circles.

My H and I went to a very experienced MC in the NYC area...his best advice: have fun together!

Keep posting/venting...and repeat after me " patience is a virtue."

IHJ