As far as I could tell, he was doing this to "keep" me, not out of any sort of desire for ME.
It took a while to trust him and to trust his desire. In the meantime, I was very cautious and guarded. I was afraid that his desire would tank as soon as he was sure I wasn't going anywhere.
Have you prepared yourself for that day? What you are going to do when you get him back? How will you keep your sex drive alive? What I am getting at is, What sorts of things do YOU like about sex and what gets YOU going? If all the focus is on your H, I'm afraid that you will be right back where you were before when he re-commits to the marriage. Kwim?
