Banannas, let me start by saying there are many similarities between you and my W, me and your H.
If I were in your H's shoes, I would be extremely cautious and weary. Here is something that has been bothering him for a very long time, and you have immediately "fixed" the biggest piece, which was the LD. I guarantee he is wondering if this is going to last. Are you doing this to appease him, or because you enjoy it? In addition, he has a lot of emotional recovery to do. He needs time to warm up again to where things were at one time.
I hope this isn't too brutally honest... it's just that if my wife did what you did, that's how I would react.
