Quote: Perhaps he feels you have just had this quick fix idea and after all he is a bit more of a complex human being than that. He wants some of your attention and that can include all kinds of things not just sex.
Sweet text messages Cooking his favourite meal Little token gifts Spending time together just chatting about stuff he is into not just whatever is on your mind at the moment.
I know when my wife had her (short-lived) "epiphany" four years ago, as STARVING as I was for the sex (and suddently doing it frequently WAS wonderful), it was some of these OTHER things she did that really made me feel special. Making my favorite dinner (that she knew most of the kids didn't like) "just because I know you like it." Telling my daughter, who was whining that her parents were actually GOING OUT ON A DATE "well, I'm sorry, but sometimes mommies need to be with daddies." (this was SOOOOO unlike my wife). The hugs. The kisses that were more than just the usual pecks.
I think there are a lot more husbands that are craving an overall "I am important to you" relationship with their wife, than there are just men looking for more sex.
