Thank you for your help. You provide some helpful insight to it all. Although you seem to know exactly what your problem is. My H's is soo deep rooted that he is questioning whether he is still "in love" with me. Have you felt this way about your W? He says that ML will not help the other issues? Should I believe this? I just talked to him and he has so much built up anger and frustration. I realize the mistakes I have made in the past, his complaints are more along the lines of not listening closely enough, talking too much about D, not enough about him, being too nice (not sure about this one), and other vague things. These do not seem like big enough issues to want to D your S over. When I ask him what he wants from me he only says "tell me to F off and then I wouldn't be the bad guy" He also says he doesn't know why I am still around.
Oh, and he was the one that told me that all of the ML the first week was too much. I actually was enjoying myself.
I don't even know how to act. Have any suggestions? -B
