HP, Your H must be sure of himself to be a non conformist and a USMC vet. I too am a nonconformist, and W has said that is what initially attracted her to me. She is the black sheep of her family, ie no make up, not a fasion hound, etc. I liked that about her, because she wasn't afraid to be who she was. BUT NOW, she actually bought LEG WAX the other day! Wasssup with that?

Any way, your H & I seem to share some common traits. Even the SC issue. Any abuse in his past?