This is a great list but I guess the problem that bothers me with the "strong yet knows how to cry" is that the timing of this seems to be on a whim and sounds contradictory. The worst part of the whole thing is that we as males should instinctively know when these times are.
Sorry to vent but for myself I find it difficult at best to know what my W wants. Dont know about anyone else but I find that most times I miss the mark almost completly.
As was said by others here, I think it is best to do what is right form me and hope that it does not get taken the wrong way.
Comming from a man who is trying to be a man of steel / tin foil.