I’m 41 and I have 2 kids, 6 years old. The world would have to change in some dramatic manner for me to want more kiddos. As much as I enjoy them I can’t imagine having more… 
I have always planned on having the V. But it seems rather un-important when you’re not having sex. Plus it’s just another excuse, a delaying technique. My question is how do I move this forward? We’ve been in this situation for a long time and it’s annoying but comfortable…know what I mean?
